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Haven Doula Spotlight: Kristina MacDonald
In this spotlight, we feature Haven Doula Kristina MacDonald.
2 days ago4 min read


Four things to consider when adding a lactation consultant to your bereavement resource list
Lactation consultants are an important part of any bereavement resource list, and Haven Certified Bereavement Doulas are required to find a few as part of their certification process. Here are four things you should think about when finding LCs to add to your list.
6 days ago2 min read


Five books Haven doulas have been reading recently
One of the most common self-care tools Haven doulas frequently use is reading. Sometimes, that reading is specifically grief related; other times, it's just fun. In either case, books are a frequent balm for the bereavement doula's soul. Want to join us in our reads? Check out Haven Book Club! To help expand your TBR (to be read) list, we've got some great recommendations from different Haven doulas on their recent beloved reads! #1: Anne of Green Gables By LM Montgomery "In
Jun 32 min read


What's the difference between a bereavement doula and a birth doula?
Did you know that bereavement doulas and birth doulas aren't entirely the same thing?
Apr 232 min read


Haven Doula Spotlight: Deb Loera
In this spotlight, we feature Haven Doula and longtime member of the Haven community, Deb Loera.
Feb 184 min read


Starting a Nonprofit: I didn’t know what I was doing, but I knew why
Considering starting a nonprofit? Check out Erica's story.
Feb 123 min read


Good Men Allow Themselves to Cry: being a bereavement doula as a man
On men, crying, and Cicero
Jan 293 min read


Word swaps to be more grief-informed
Sometimes, words can convey messages we may not mean. Here are some phrases you can swap out in order to be a bit more grief-informed.
Jan 282 min read


Physical warning signs after a miscarriage
If you experience these things, call your medical care provider.
Dec 30, 20252 min read


What to consider when adding a grief support group to your resource list
Five questions to consider as you search for grief support groups
Dec 30, 20253 min read


What to do when you unintentionally become a bereavement photographer
Not all bereavement doulas are photographers, but sometimes we have to be. Here are some tips and resources to help you provide photographs to families after a loss. Tip #1: Get some bereavement photographers on your resource list! Organizations and individuals are both great options. Remember that you can always message newborn photographers or doulatogs in your area and ask them if they'd be willing to help out in a case of loss. (Remember also that some organizations and i
Dec 29, 20252 min read


Haven Doula Spotlight: Dr. Abby Jorgensen
In this spotlight, we feature Haven founder, Dr. Abby Jorgensen.
Dec 3, 20253 min read


Announcing the 2026 Haven Book Clubs
Check out the Haven Book Club picks for 2026
Nov 20, 20251 min read


Why does miscarriage occur
One of the most common questions people have about birth before 20 weeks gestation is, “Why does it happen?” Why miscarriage occurs is a really difficult question to answer. Often, we can’t actually give families specific answers for their own specific cases. However, there are some common causes (or commonly discussed causes) that can be useful for everyone to know. So, to help society get more grief-informed, we are sharing this information by gifting everyone who reads
Oct 28, 20251 min read


Haven Doula Spotlight: Whitney Whitmore
In this spotlight, we feature Whitney Whitmore, a Haven Doula and the Director of Home - Lily of the Valley Catholic Ministry.
Oct 14, 20257 min read


Pet Companions in Times of Grief: Why Pets are Sometimes the Best Support
Pet companions have always been a part of my life. If we've ever met, you probably at the very least saw a picture of my pet companion: my little dog Buzz.
Sep 24, 20254 min read


4 Ways Bereavement Doulas Can Use AI to Support Their Work (Without Losing the Heart of It)
Grief work is sacred but it can also be exhausting. When you’re holding space for families experiencing loss, it’s no surprise that your own words sometimes run dry. You might know what you want to say, but everything feels too sharp or too tired to land well.
Sep 19, 20253 min read


Announcing our new course: Labor & Birth before 20 Weeks Gestation
Our new course, Labor and Birth before 20 Weeks Gestation, fills that gap. It provides 6 hours of evidence-based, easy-to-understand material for any support person who wants to become more knowledgeable in supporting families physically through miscarriage.
Sep 10, 20252 min read


Prepared Presence 2025
Come join our free 5-day mini course, Prepared Presence 2025, September 22-26. Each day, you’ll get access to a short video with instructions for a 10-minute activity designed to help make your online presence more welcoming and supportive of loss families.
Sep 8, 20251 min read


Haven Doula Spotlight: Carli Herzog
In this spotlight, we feature Carli Herzog, a Haven-trained bereavement doula in Iowa.
Aug 22, 20252 min read
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