If you experience these things, call your medical care provider.

Five questions to consider as you search for grief support groups

Not all bereavement doulas are photographers, but sometimes we have to be. Here are some tips and resources to help you provide photographs to families after a loss. Tip #1: Get some bereavement photographers on your resource list! Organizations and individuals are both great options. Remember that you can always message newborn photographers or doulatogs in your area and ask them if they'd be willing to help out in a case of loss. (Remember also that some organizations and i

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One of the most common questions people have about birth before 20 weeks gestation is, “Why does it happen?”  Why miscarriage occurs is a really difficult question to answer. Often, we can’t actually give families specific answers for their own specific cases. However, there are some common causes (or commonly discussed causes) that can be useful for everyone to know.  So, to help society get more grief-informed, we are sharing this information by gifting everyone who reads

Pet companions have always been a part of my life. If we've ever met, you probably at the very least saw a picture of my pet companion: my little dog Buzz.

Grief work is sacred but it can also be exhausting. When you’re holding space for families experiencing loss, it’s no surprise that your own words sometimes run dry. You might know what you want to say, but everything feels too sharp or too tired to land well.

Our new course, Labor and Birth before 20 Weeks Gestation, fills that gap. It provides 6 hours of evidence-based, easy-to-understand material for any support person who wants to become more knowledgeable in supporting families physically through miscarriage.

Come join our free 5-day mini course, Prepared Presence 2025, September 22-26. Each day, you’ll get access to a short video with instructions for a 10-minute activity designed to help make your online presence more welcoming and supportive of loss families.

As bereavement doulas, one of the ways we support families is through connecting them to grief-informed care providers, of many kinds! Today’s blog post is part of our ongoing effort at Haven to help you strengthen your resource list – that collection of care providers that you have on hand and ready for the moment a family needs it.

Doulas and other support people may find themselves in situations where a baby is rushed off to surgery immediately or shortly after birth. How can we support families in this situation? Here are five suggestions for you.

In many bereavement cases, we as bereavement doulas (or any kind of support people) can benefit from a consultation with another professional. You may want to ask a neonatologist their general standard of care for a certain type of case, or an experienced bereavement doula how they might handle the family dynamic you’re presented with, or a grief therapist what modalities of therapy might be most useful to someone in your client’s situation.

When a little one needs a burial vessel, you might not realize that you have options.

A useful tool for bereavement doulas and loss families.

Mental health therapists are an important part of any bereavement resource list, and Haven Certified Bereavement Doulas are required to find a few as part of their certification process. Here are six things you should think about when finding therapists to add to your list.

We were so grateful to host therapist and author Julia Marie Hogan recently for the February 2025 Haven Skills Session!

On what it means to receive the same story - for the teller and for me.

When you're administering emotional first aid, one key component of your preparation is having resources ready should a client need them. Here are some resources you may need if you're administering emotional first aid to a client who has experienced a loss.

What should we know as support people about loss parenting during the holidays? I have developed a short guide, so we can better companion those we serve. 

If you love to learn, to read, and/or to discuss tough topics with thoughtful people, this book club is for you.